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Wednesday, August 31 through Saturday, September 3, 1966
INTRODUCTION: (by Gerry, 11/6/2005)
The year was 1966. Of
course there were no cell phones or email, so we had to actually write
letters—and wait for responses! I had saved most of the letters from those days
which I recently rediscovered in a box in the basement— an interesting time
capsule which has brought back things forgotten and clarified other memories
distorted over time. One of the things I found was a copy of a letter I wrote to
John Morgan describing our One Year Reunion. John was doing his alternative
service at Camphill Village in Copake, NY and was unable to come to the reunion.
Apparently it was quite important to me to write down my thoughts, because I
saved the hand-written draft of the letter which I had used to copy out the
letter which was actually mailed.
In March of 1966
Mikey (at Cornell University in New York) wrote to me (at the University of
Miami, Coral Gables, FL) about a weekend visit from Susan who came up to Cornell
from Harpur College. They had a great visit and Mikey was excited and relieved
about being able to communicate with a fellow Olneyite in a way not possible
with anyone in her new environment.. Mikey seemed to think that sharing thoughts
and ideas with Susan helped to link her Olney and post-Olney worlds. In a letter
to me dated March 13 she wrote, “I wish we could have a reunion.” That
immediately set me to thinking and I wrote back with the idea of actually trying
to plan a gathering which would be part workcamp, part conference and part
reunion. The idea was well received and after rounds of letter-writing among
several of us it was decided that the end of the summer would be best. I wrote
to Tom Brown to get permission. He thought it was a great idea, and then a few
weeks after the reunion, even sent me a letter of appreciation. (I fear I may
have neglected to share that letter with anyone else, so it is included
here—belatedly!)
Note: Anyone else
who has contemporary materials which could be shared and posted on this website,
please contact Dana or
Gerry!!
What follows are an article which appeared in the Olney Current,
Gerry’s letter describing the Reunion, a letter of appreciation from Tom
Brown, and classmates' responses.
From THE OLNEY CURRENT, Eleventh Month, 1966:
1965
Class Reunion
On 9-1-1966
members of the Class of 1965 began arriving at Olney. What took place for the
next four days (we think) is unique in the history of the school. Why did we
return so soon? A one-year reunion does seem like an odd idea, but we felt it
was perhaps more valuable to us have a five or ten year one. The idea arose from
a concern to renew friendships and to appreciate the growth and experiences of
each other since graduation. However, it was not only a “reunion” in the
traditional sense of the word. We wanted to help with summer work at the school,
thus expressing our continuing interest in Olney.
We began with only
a very basic idea of what would happen. Mornings were spent painting, making
tomato juice and doing some cleaning. This left the rest of the day for relaxed
conversations and activities ranging from a hockey game (co-ed) to a trip to a
small community which had been the scene of an AFSC workcamp. We enjoyed
visiting with the staff and appreciated their hospitality.
Coming together on
a new level was an exciting experience. Even though we had all gone on to
something else—something outside of Olney, we were still able to communicate
meaningful to each other. This reunion showed us that we were not so far apart.
As we left, we felt this was not the end, but was something that could be
continued.
NOTE: Contributed by Michaele Monger, Gerry Grant and Anita Custard. Thirteen
members of the class were there for all or a part of the weekend.
Gerry’s Letter
about the Reunion:
September 17, 1966
Centerville, Indiana
Dear John,
Since you’re not able to get away from your alternative service assignment at
Camphill Village, I thought I'd attempt to let you know what happened at the
class reunion, and perhaps clarify my own thought by writing them out.
First, I am generally quite well - pleased at the way it turned out and believe
all others are, also. However, there was something odd
about the whole thing - at least when one begins analyzing it. I got roped into
helping Mikey write an article about it for the Current
and when we talked a couple of days ago we spent most of the time saying over
and over in various ways how great, but strange it was and not knowing what to
write for the Current or even what to
think ourselves. Out of four wonderful days blurred with activity,
conversation and lack of sleep came conflicting feelings which seem to cancel
each other out forming an enigmatic void. It was like traveling backward and
forward in time, yet remaining suspended. Things, people seemed familiar, yet
strange. Saturday night (the last night) I was anxious to leave yet wanted to
stay. I think most others have the same mixed feelings.
Here's what happened - briefly as possible! ... Driving with my Grandmother who
stayed with nearby relatives, Mikey And I arrived around 2:30 Wednesday, Aug.
31. After saying "Hi 'n' bye" to TSB we found Allen Starbuck drifting around the
halls and took him as guide to Raven Rocks.
Arriving again at school and unpacking, who should drive in by taxi; but Tony
and Dana. We stayed pretty much together before and after supper. After dark it
was Jerry Clark's idea to have a campfire which was great and finally broke up
around 10:30. The males of '65 were supposed to stay in Rockwell's old house
(the one on the walk) while the ladies got Peck's house, behind the Main
Building. So we three fellows tramped down bag and baggage to have a look at the
place. We unanimously agreed it was the most depressing place we'd seen since
graduation - especially the (THE) narrow double bead in the turquoise dining
room. So, we tiptoed up behind the Main and moved in on the floor above Mikey.
Finally, lights out about 1AM; Dana in one room, Tony and I in another and Mikey
downstairs. Our room was pitch black, and it's a good thing, too, because Mikey
came calling dressed as a ghost and Tony was au natural. He thought she
was Dana and let fly all the four-letter words he knew. Then, Dana walked in
disguised as James Cooper, which created a few seconds of confusion. And so, by
the time Mikey left in an hour and Tony and I resumed our conversation and
exhausted all topics, it was after 3AM.
Thursday morning we scrubbed the gym walls - most unrewarding drudgery. I walked
around all day bleary-eyed and developed a pounding headache which I got rid of
by riding with Tr. Tom to Wheeling to pick up Penny Letson. Susan, Jean, and
Ramona also arrived about the same time (Tony, Dana, and I had already evacuated
to the boys’ dorm.) Also, Thursday morning Warren and Tim rolled in from
California and Warren began at once compulsively washing his car and we got to
visit briefly with him before he went to his room to get some sleep before
heading on East, where I assume you got to see him as you wrote.
Fri. - more work. I helped Nan in the library in the afternoon, so am not sure
what others did. Fri. evening most people went to a dance at the "Appalachian
Youth Center of Warnock" community where Susan had attended an Olney-based work
camp. I stayed to welcome Anita and Ed who got in from Richmond about 10. The
others arrived back a little later and we gathered in the downstairs of the
girls' quarters. Blasting Rolling Stones records encourage the familiarities of
small group conversations. At no time was there real group discussion, and it's
really just as well: complete informality was best - as was the complete freedom
campus we enjoyed after staff were in bed, which was well-used but not abused.
What was, to me, I think, the most outstanding experience occurred around 3AM
Saturday (or Friday night). Somehow Susan, Tony, Mikey, Dana, Ed, and I found
ourselves in the dining room sipping milk and there we drifted as a group out to
underneath the Boys' Porch where we just stood around. We just seemed to have
run out of things to say and it was certainly bedtime; but no one made a move.
The suspense was tremendous; it seemed that everyone wanted to say something,
but no one knew what to say. The logical thing to do would been to say good
night be we all simply hung around; finally, I suggested walking out the drive.
It was a magnificent night. The moon was full and there were silver clouds
drifting high in the sky. I think we all felt a strange, nebulous emotion surge
around us which was indescribable-- almost religious. Intense excitement and a
sort of inner bursting combined with a sense of peace, joy and fellowship. We
reached the end of the drive in silence; we seemed to be clinging (figuratively)
to each other and wondering (inhibitedly) why. Finally, Susan said she was
wondering why we had come back. She had been previously talking with Mikey and
Dana about it. After a while I made some tentative expression of groping
thoughts expecting that someone else would have something to say. Tony, for
once, seemed not to. Mikey said a few words. Then Ed, squatting on the ground,
and, as I learned later on, wondering what the heck was going on, summed up the
whole situation in inimitable Simonovian fashion, murmuring, "It's wet here."
(referring to the ground). Spontaneously, Susan and I started back and after
talking awhile turned in. Mikey and Dana got
involved in communication for the first time and sat talking in the graveyard
for a couple of hours. Lying on my sleeping bag in Room 12 I could hear
'Simon-govia' with his guitar on the Boys' Porch - a rather re-assuring sound
which faded in and out with the breeze - a delightful effect.
Saturday afternoon Lola drove the German class plus Ramona to Barnesville to
call on Tr. Kenneth. Browns had camp supper for us in the Girl's Woods which
ended in watermelon seed-throwing and -spitting. Then came 'Horse and Rider';
(Tony's idea) with Tony and Penny against Anita and me-- and continued by
others-- followed by a rousing game of hockey, the most memorable moment of
which was when Tr. Tom bounced the ball on his stick half way down the field!
After recovering, we went to White's (the one story brick house) for the evening
and heard David Brown's spiel followed by discussion. Whites wanted advice from
us as recent grads-- likes, dislikes, pros and cons of Olney in relation to
present environments. I don't recall anything really outstanding having been
said. One main idea was that the school should provide seniors with a better
idea of what to expect in college-- with emphasis on mechanics such as credits,
etc. The party broke up when everyone rushed out to greet the Zavitz family as
they came putting in like a victoriously-returning girls' basketball team, their
VW microbus bulging and loaded on top.
After leaving Whites’ and congregating at Pecks’ house in similar fashion to the
previous night, I left to turn in at 2AM, ran into Ed and we talked on the
Main's front porch until around 4AM. Meanwhile Bob Salov had arrived from
goodness-knows-where and it seems there was a plan afoot for Tony, Susan, Dana,
and Penny to leave with him that night for Georgia to visit Bill White. Well,
Tony and Susan backed out and finally persuaded Penny, who was packed and in the
car, not to go. So-- I don't know what happened but to Dana but he's now at
Michigan State. I left right after meeting Sunday.
It is now Sunday, Oct. 2 and I’ve gotten a good start at Earlham. I'm horrified
when I see how much I've written. I hope it doesn't seem too involved and
trivial! But I feel, after several weeks, it is
the details and small incidents which best describe what happened.
It was a time packed with activity-- especially when some of us were putting in
twenty hour days! I keep wanting to sum up my thought and to reach some definite
and profound conclusion about the reunion, but as I reflect, I find I keep going
around in circles. I constantly think of new angles with overlapping and
interconnected themes and finally conclude that all I can conclude is
that the Reunion was a success.
Tom Brown's Letter
Responses from classmates:
Dana Replies:
Many thanks to Gerry for sharing! I
continue to be impressed with how accurately he documented the
emotional/spiritual content of the reunion as well as our activities.
To me, the reunion ties together a number of threads, or paths in my life...
Here's a few:
I got to the Reunion by first taking a
long-haired, Easy Rider (is that a boy or a girl?) Greyhound trip from
Spriegel's in Gallipolis to visit Tony at his home in Narrows, VA. Two
things stand out: a great mountain climb, and Tony reading Sandburg ("Indian
Copper"?) till I drifted off to sleep one
afternoon. We hitched up to Barnesville on a glorious fall day... even the
interchange of I-70 and I-77 was transfigured.
The moonlight night and cemetery formed
the basis for some writing that's been almost finished for a long time and
may remain in that state for a bit longer.
The ride to Georgia to visit Bill with
Bobby was great fun. Probably best that others didn't come along... would
have been stranger than it already was! Then the hitch back North with Bill:
Most of the way with a circus carny, his stripper wife (trust me, I didn't
want to see those clothes come off!), and their child, JoJo, affectionately
referred to as "JoJo, you little shit." We may have stayed with Claudie in
Pittsburgh... then on to study with 40,000 others at Michigan State. I know
that after FBS and the reunion, I allowed myself to feel really disconnected
at MSU. I think there are hints of similar feelings in others in Gerry's
letter.
Speaking only for myself, I see the
Cleveland "experience" as a natural outgrowth/attempt to hold on to Olney
and friends. I wouldn't trade it or Olney for
anything. On the other hand, we all grow up sooner or later (my case) and
leave behind childish things... I understand better now why Chester
Doudna would us address as "Tender Youth". Passionate, earnest,
and (certainly in my case) whacky. - Love to
all, DTZ
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